كلمة - الحلقة 22 - المسامح كريم - مصطفى حسني
Todays word is on the heart of every person who has a good heart. It is a quality that Allah always loves to see, and for it to be in every household, and for all of us to be a person of this quality.
The word of today is the generous forgiving person.
Allah loves forgiveness, that is why He describe Himself as the Most Forgiving, and He taught us to also have this quality of forgiveness. For it be apart of our character to forgive.
Before I speak about forgiveness, I know that lots of people have been wronged, and hurt greatly which makes forgiveness difficult. That is why Allah sent down the signs in this dunya, and on the Day of Judgement He will save those who forgive. They will have their rights.
Today I speak about the hundreds of problems, the fights that happen due to our weakness, and the characteristics we need to work on. Let us agree that 50 out of 100 percent of our problems can be solved if we forgave one another.
In our religion this form of forgiveness is called "Islaah Daat Albayn" like the makeup between the two who were not talking, etc.
The Prophet said: "Shall I not inform you of a level higher than salah, siyam (fasting), sadaq (charity)" The people replied: Yes ofcourse tell us
he said: the makeup between two people, the ties or relations.
Than he said: breaking and cutting of relations is like the shave/cut. It does not just cut the hair, rather it cuts the deen (religion)."
When we fight with each other, and lose each other, and we dont want to makeup, there is a corruption. This breaking of relations ruins the deen religion, because Allah does not like to see this type of broken relation.
One of the signs of the hypocrite is that " Whenever he quarrels, he behaves in a very imprudent, evil and insulting manner". The hypocrite can go for 1,2,3,5 days, no even months! without talking to their brother/ sister or whoever.
For those of you who think that if you forgive someone you will become and seem weak:
the Prophet said: There are 3 I swear upon
1. When you pay sadqa (charity) you will not lose or decrease in money/wealth, Allah will place barakaa (blessings) in the rest of your money.
2. If someone forgives someone who wronged them, Allah will only increase them in honor !
Honor is in the power of Allah, and He only honors whom He wills.
The Prophet was crying as he was telling a story about two people asking for their rights on the Day of Judgement, and the Prophet said, Indeed the Day of Judgement is Great day, people will direly need others to forgive them.
Allah tells the one who was wronged/oppressed but still forgave: raise your head, and look to the gardens,
the oppressed one raises his head and looks and he says: Oh Allah I see mountains of gold and sliver, and (other stuff described in the Quran about Jannah), which prophet is this for!? For which truthful man!?
Allah replied for the One who gave "Atamaan" (I dont know how to translate the word) but maybe something around good, kindness, etc.
The man said: Who is the ownership who gave the tamaan?
Allah replied: You gave the tamaan , you own it.
The man said: But why!
Allah replied: Because you forgave your brother
The man said: I forgive my brother!
Allah replied: Take the hand of your brother and enter Jannah
After telling this story, the Prophet said:
Be concicous of Allah (Fa Ataqwaa Allah) and fix your relation's with others, because Allah will fix your realtions between the beleivers on the Day of Judgement.
After this hadith, the Prophet implies fixing your relations with people at this moment before this moment on the Day of Judgement.
Through this story he is telling the one who wronged the other person, why dont you forgive your brother now in case he doesnt forgive you on the Day of Judgement, and to the one who was wronged, he is telling him what if you forgave your brother now and Allah will give you this amazing place in Jannah which will be written for you from this moment.
Yallah Ya Jamaah (Mustfaah Hosny, and Yasir Birjas both say this alot lol, it means come on people!)
"AlMasmih Al Qarim" The generous forgiving person.
If the wrong was not of sin or blood, than forgive,forgive so Allah can forgive you..
And if you cannot forgive, I am not going to force you because I know there are hearts that still cannot forgive, but remember
Holy Quran 16:126-127
And if you punish (your enemy, O you believers in the Oneness of Allah), then punish them with the like of that with which you were afflicted. But if you endure patiently, verily, it is better for As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.).
And (endure) patiently, and in no way is your patience with the help of anyone except with Allah. And do not grieve for them, nor be straitened for whatever they scheme.
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