" You cannot win people with your wealth, but you can conquer their
hearts with your smiling faces and good manners"-AlBazzar
Quick Hadiths On Creating Good Realtions With Others
Say: Thank You
"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah"-Prophet
This is one of my favorite hadiths I think my mom taught me it. I feel it is an important implication in our dealings with everyone from your parents, co-workers, friends,classmates, spouse, and anyone that comes in your way. People appreciate that simple "Thank You or JazkaAllahkhairn".
Yesterday, as a joke my aunt was saying thank you very much sarcastically to everyone in her way, although it was funny, there is no doubt she brought smiles to these people, and light to their hearts.
Say: I Love You
"When a man loves his brother he should tell him that he loves him"-Prophet
Again, this is small but very important statement that can help you keep good relations with the people around you. Especially when you say I love you for the sake of Allah.
Show Kindness
" It is not kindness to be kind to those who you know, but kindness means that you are
kind to all human beings" -Prophet
Kindness can be seen through your words,actions, and body language.
Show Mercy
" Allah is merciful to those who are merciful to others, so be merciful to those on earth, Allah will have mercy on you. Preserving relations with the kin (Family) is prescribed by Allah. He who mainted the blood relations, strengthened his bond with Allah, and he who severed them, is cut off from Allah"-Prophet
So you want mercy from the Most Merciful? Start by showing mercy to others.
Show Forgiveness
"He who does not forgive others, Allah will not forgive him." -Prophet
If Allah forgives His creations who are we to not forgive His creations?
Finally: Dont Make People Run Away
I never heard of this one I love it
"Make things easy, and do not make them difficult,
and give good tidings and do not make people run away"-Prophet
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